Monday, October 31, 2011

Over Achiever

The other day I admitted to Noah that my "70 things to do before baby" list and the 210 mile challenge I put myself on is really taking a toll on me.

He laughed. I think he liked to hear me say it.

That doesn't mean I am giving up though, it just means that I am more determined than ever.

And I will admit to being slightly frustrated that everything on my list that I do accomplish seems to generate 3 more things that I must do.

Tonight he bought me roses (on sale ones, which are the only kind I accept)

And we watched "The Lion King" with the kids.

We ate Pear Pie- which Noah decided to make after being inspired by a 3 year old at Sunday School who made a pear pie out of play-doh.

Tomorrow will be soon enough to finish the laundry, and everything else.


Monday, October 24, 2011

What No One Told Me

People ask lots of questions about having a "big" family. Things like, "how are you going to have time for them all?" and "how are you going to buy them all cars and send them to college?"

What I have discovered though, is that neither one of those things are that big of a deal.
They can share rooms. They can share cars. They don't need everything.

They are individuals, and as individuals, they naturally get individual attention.
They demand it. When I list my kids out: Deacon, Roman, Lincoln and Berean it doesn't seem like that many. They are so different. 4 different people.
Instead people should be asking me, "how do you keep track off all the dental appointments?" "how do you wash all the clothes?"
and "how do you manage so many schedules and paperwork?"

But they don't ask those things.
Even they know, those things are just details.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

70 Things to do Before Baby- UPDATE

1. Go to zoo
2. Children’s Museum
3.Buy Carseat
4. Find/Wash baby clothes (found part of them!)
5. Make L an ENT appt
6. Take L to ENT appt
7. Clean out van- OCT
8. Clean out van- NOV
9. Clean out van- DEC
10. Fall Yardwork (this has been started, but I am not ready to call it completed yet!)
11. 210 mile Challenge- OCT (I have determined to run/walk 210 miles before baby!) (21 miles done this week!)
12. 210 mile Challenge- NOV
13. 210 mile Challenge- DEC
14. Seasonal clothes swap
15. Winter weather wear established
16. Finish and Mail Roman’s thank you notes
17. Office to our room
18. Move Boys to office
19. Berean and Baby to boys room
20. N- make vision appt
21. N- go to vision appt
22. FMLA paperwork
23. 2012 insurance selection
24. Preregister at hospital
25. Clean out garage so cars will fit
26. Freezer meal cooking
27. Cabinets finished and installed
28. New countertops
29. Backsplash
30. Replace microwave
31. Fix/replace CD player in van (purchased one, Noah just has to install!)
32. Pay off lot
33. Mattresses for boys beds
34. Take pictures of boys
35. Mail pictures to Grandparents
36. Christmas letter/pictures/birth announcements
37. D’s birthday party
38. Christmas shopping
39. Christmas presents for teachers
40. Christmas decorations
41. Study for ACLS
42. ACLS
43. N- fix computer
44. N- finish knife
45. Get ring fixed
46. Finish cleaning kitchen
47. OCC boxes
48. Sparks Fall Frolic
49. Dentist- me
50. Paint boy’s room
51. Paint Berean’s room
52. New blinds for boys room
53. 32 week appt
54. 36 week appt
55. 38 week appt
56. 40 week appt
57. Make yogurt on a routine (did this once!)
58. Sign boys up for basketball
59. Basketball evaluations
60. Swimming lesson sign ups
61. 21 day plan
62. Buy shoes
63. Potty train Berean
64. Christmas charitable giving with boys
65. Mystery of History Timeline
66. Bean candles
67. Love and Respect series
68. Family trip to Duluth
69. TBD- Noah to submit
70. TBD- Noah to submit

Friday, October 21, 2011

New Favorite Song

Noah has a lot of friends that are always going off hunting or on little vacations or have (seemingly) endless freetime. I said, "I don't get it! How do they get away with being away so much? Sometimes I feel bad Noah, because you rarely do any of that stuff" (except broomball. and volleyball :)

He essentially told me what this song says, so when I heard this song for the first time the very next day, it became my new favorite!



Thursday, October 20, 2011

Terrible Accident

Unfortunately, the numbers didn't buckle up before they left home.

70 things to do before Baby

As of last Sunday, I was 30 weeks pregnant. That means 10 weeks (or 70 days) until baby! In honor of that milestone, I decided to make a list of 70 things that need to get done before baby. Of course, this list is not all-inclusive, but it does include some things that I am in danger of forgetting and/or neglecting. Some of the things are quick, some are going to linger. I am going to try to update the list weekly, so I can see what is getting done!

1. Go to zoo
2. Children’s Museum
3.Buy Carseat
4. Find/Wash baby clothes
5. Make L an ENT appt
6. Take L to ENT appt
7. Clean out van- OCT
8. Clean out van- NOV
9. Clean out van- DEC
10. Fall Yardwork
11. 210 mile Challenge- OCT (I have determined to run/walk 210 miles before baby!)
12. 210 mile Challenge- NOV
13. 210 mile Challenge- DEC
14. Seasonal clothes swap
15. Winter weather wear established
16. Finish and Mail Roman’s thank you notes
17. Office to our room
18. Move Boys to office
19. Berean and Baby to boys room
20. N- make vision appt
21. N- go to vision appt
22. FMLA paperwork
23. 2012 insurance selection
24. Preregister at hospital
25. Clean out garage so cars will fit
26. Freezer meal cooking
27. Cabinets finished and installed
28. New countertops
29. Backsplash
30. Replace microwave
31. Fix/replace CD player in van
32. Pay off lot
33. Mattresses for boys beds
34. Take pictures of boys
35. Mail pictures to Grandparents
36. Christmas letter/pictures/birth announcements
37. D’s birthday party
38. Christmas shopping
39. Christmas presents for teachers
40. Christmas decorations
41. Study for ACLS
42. ACLS
43. N- fix computer
44. N- finish knife
45. Get ring fixed
46. Finish cleaning kitchen
47. OCC boxes
48. Sparks Fall Frolic
49. Dentist- me
50. Paint boy’s room
51. Paint Berean’s room
52. New blinds for boys room
53. 32 week appt
54. 36 week appt
55. 38 week appt
56. 40 week appt
57. Make yogurt on a routine
58. Sign boys up for basketball
59. Basketball evaluations
60. Swimming lesson sign ups
61. 21 day plan
62. Buy shoes
63. Potty train Berean
64. Christmas charitable giving with boys
65. Mystery of History Timeline
66. Bean candles
67. Love and Respect series
68. Family trip to Duluth
69. TBD- Noah to submit
70. TBD- Noah to submit

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

It's Never Boring

This week is my 29th week of pregnancy.

This week is the week that my work schedule got all messed up.

This is the week that I am taking a big critical care class with test.

This is the week where I actually sent Noah a highlighted email breakdown of the week so he would know where he was supposed to transport what kids and when.

So, it stands to reason that this would be also be the "cd player breaks in the van" week and the "fire in the kitchen week".

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Ok, so the above paragraphs were written last week.

This week is my 30th week of pregnancy,

This week my work schedule is more normal, but feeling more stressful,

This is the week that I don't have to study because I passed my big test,

This is the week that I am not organized enough to even find my list, let alone email it (or anything else), to anyone,

This is the week in which we are still microwave-less, CD-player-less and are still cleaning up the kitchen...

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Last week I worked on odd shift. In the morning I rushed home to pick up the kids in order to get them to class on time. I ran in the house for about 30 seconds to grab something and get a quick report-off from Noah, who had gotten the kids ready for the day. Noah was taking Berean to my mom's house and I was just going to sleep in my car while the boys were in class.

Everything went as planned, but I would not recommend sleeping in one's car, except on an emergency basis.

After classes were done, the boys and I drove over to my parent's house to pick up Berean. We went home after that and settled in for the afternoon. I noticed when I got home that Noah's ice maker was on our electric, flat top stove and that the red light was on which means it is not actively running, just on standby. Shortly after we got home we went outside to play. I was sitting on the deck and the kids were occupied in various pursuits around the yard.

After a few minutes, Deacon ran up the deck stairs and went into the house. He immediately came back out and said, "Mom, you've gotta see this!" It was the tone of voice he uses when he sees an unusual spider or his brother stealing cookies.

"Deacon, I am exhausted. I don't want to get up right now. What do you want to show me?"

"No, mom, you really need to see this!"

I got up and went over to the door. I looked into the kitchen. Flames and smoke were surrounding the ice machine and moving down the counter. I told Deacon to keep everyone outside and grabbed my fire extinguisher. The smoke detectors started going off as I put the blaze out.

I had never used a fire extinguisher before and I have to say I was impressed. Yes, it made a terrible mess, but it was very effective very quickly, and there was a lot of stuff left in the extinguisher- I could have put out a much bigger fire.

Turns out, the small burner on the back of the stove was on. It must have gotten bumped when Noah put the ice maker on the stove. The cord was running across the burner. Somehow, though, nothing happened for the 6 hours that we were gone. I didn't smell anything hot or melting when I got home. As near as we can figure, us all coming home, opening the door etc. blew something onto the hot burner and since everything back there was already hot- it just ignited. The boys and I talked about how God had protected us and our home by having the fire happen when we were home, and that Deacon had chosen to walk into the house right then and had seen it right away. It could have been much worse. Our hearts were filled with thanks and praise for a God who loves us and watches over our daily life.

I did mention to Deacon that if a fire is spotted, yelling "fire!" is probably a better idea than trying to convince me that there is something "I really need to see".

So our kitchen is slowly getting clean and we are washing every dish from every cupboard. That fire extinguisher stuff gets everywhere! We bought a new extinguisher, and are now planning on expedited backsplash/tiling project. There is always something, isn't there?


Monday, October 17, 2011

Someday Soon

I really, really want to tell you all about the fire in my kitchen.

I really, really want to tell you about some funny things the boys have been saying.

I really, really want to post my "70 things to do in the 70 days before baby"

I really, really want to tell you about the conference I went to last week.

And about charlie horses,

and having to stay at work late everyday,

and a couple books I am reading,

and my awesome husband.

I would say that last week was one of the longest ones of my life, because that is what people say. But it didn't feel long, it felt incredibly short.

And I am guessing the next 10 will feel even shorter.

My goal is to write about some of these things in the next day or two,

but now there is laundry to fold, school to complete, a baby girl to dress and breakfast to serve.

And maybe somewhere in there, I might get a nap.




Saturday, October 8, 2011

Day in the Life- October 2011

NavigatingtheMothership is hosting the fall edition of "Day in the Life"! Here is my contribution:

DAY IN THE OCTOBER LIFE:
Noah-Husband
Julie-Me
Deacon-7
Roman-6
Lincoln-4
Berean-18months
Name TBD- Christmas Day

0723: I roll out of bed. My goal is to get up at 0700, but considering that we were up late (past midnight) last night, I gave myself an extra 23 minutes. Surprisingly, my morning shadow, Lincoln, was still asleep. That didn't last long.

0725: Check blogs, facebook, email. Then I run down to the laundry room to get some laundry going- I try to get all the laundry done on Mondays, but I had an extra load to do that had gotten missed. I note on the way down that the bizarro atomic clock is still reading bizarro times and cannot be trusted.

My laundry room is very fancy. See the blue laundry basket in front of the dryer? That basket is 11 1/2 years old. Noah believes that it is time to toss it out, but I just haven't done it yet. The more laundry baskets, the better- I always say.

0735: I start some water for hot chocolate. My microwave has been on the fritz for nearly a month now, and it is truly aggravating. Apparently not aggravating enough though to get me to go to the store and buy a new one. I sit down to read my Bible and pray. I look up to see this cute little face yawning at me. One of the boys or Noah must have released her from her pack n' play.

0755: Noah is around, getting ready for work. The boys are playing. I take a quick shower. And then head for the kitchen to start breakfast for the crew.
0805: Breakfast prep in full swing, my goal is to have breakfast going at 0800, before that time, if the boys are up they are on their own. Toast for me (with butter, peanut butter and jelly) and the boys and Berean with various combinations of toast, cereal, bananas and milk.

0820: Mother-in-law arrives a little early and so I rush to get Lincoln dressed and cleaned up for his speech therapy. She takes him out the door for therapy and the older boys and I get the kitchen cleaned up and ready for schoolwork. Somewhere in there I get Berean changed, cleaned up and dressed. School starts around 0830.
School goes on from around 0830 until 1030. Lincoln gets home somewhere around 1000 and joins in the fun. I spend some time wrangling markers away from Berean and trying to keep her off the table. I get the swimming bags packed while the boys do their worksheets. It is amazing what we can get done in couple of hours- all subjects and pages that are supposed to be done, get done. I release the boys and quickly cut up the rest of my apples for applesauce. I have made applesauce out of around 4 bushels of apples- some from friends and some from an apple orchard. We will be able to have applesauce for a snack at least twice a week for the next 6 months. I also start lunch.
1115: I enter the once completely clean living room (I didn't include the picture from earlier of it's clean state). Hmmm...what have we here? Camera is having flash problems, and there are lots of movements, but as you can see, great fun was had by all.


1120: I informed the boys that they would be cleaning up the living room before playing with any friends that afternoon. Everyone sat down to eat their pancake lunch. Applesauce still cooking down.
During lunch I ran upstairs to get my running shoes on and to make sure that I had everything necessary for the afternoon's activities.

1140: grab the swimming bags. Yes, the swimming bags were sitting outside the door in the garage. This precaution is necessary to prevent a certain someone from distributing their contents all over the house.
1141: Berean and I head outside to get in the van (our garage is holding several large tools that my husband is supposed to be finding a place for). I look over our yard. No sign of the boys. I call and they eventually come running from all corners of the yard and pile in the van.
Oh! Here is Berean chillin' in her chair while I hunt for the boys.
1145: We are finally on our way to homeschool gym and swimming lessons at the YMCA.
1200: I get the older boys to their class, drop the two younger ones off at childcare and head up to the treadmills. Normally I walk/run and talk to the other moms. This time I half listen to the conversation while trying to keep my attention on the "Prereading" (which is 16 chapters of non-light reading) that I need to have done for a Critical Care class I am taking next week. I walk 3 miles.

1300: pick up the boys from their class and get them changed for swimming lessons. Roman has his lesson first, and I swim a 1/2 mile during his lesson. Deacon has passed his pinkwristband test and is allowed to be in the leisure pool alone.

1350: pick little ones up from childcare and get their swimming suits on. Roman, Lincoln, Berean and I all swim during Deacon's lesson. Roman passes his pink wrist band test and he is very happy.

1445: out of the pool and headed for the dreaded locker room. Showering and redressing all those little wet bodies in a locker room is no easy task.

1505: walking out of the Y. Think getting out this fast must be a record.

1520: arrive home. Berean has fallen asleep and gets put in her crib. The boys clean up the living room (very nicely!) and get all of their AWANA (church stuff) together by the door. I strain my cooked down apples through my applesauce maker. While I am doing that, our friends arrive from down the street and we head outside.

I stop to take some pictures of my flowers- the monarchs love them!
Deacon climbs his favorite tree. I visit with my neighbor.

The kids all want their pictures taken. I didn't ask permission to post the pictures of the (several) children in our yard, but here are some of the boys.


1630: head back inside. The boys turn on the tv and I finish up my applesauce project.

1655: Grandma Pam arrives to take Deacon to church choir. She brings him a new shirt from Feed My Starving Children, since he had gone with to help pack food the night before. I took some pictures of my mom, but I am pretty sure she would not want them posted :)
1700: I wash and bundle up my new favorite purchase, my applesauce maker, to take to church for my friend Renae. I clean up the kitchen and get myself ready for church.

1740: I load the 3 younger kids up in the van and we set off for church. Spaghetti pie for supper! The kids eat the meat, I eat it all. We meet Deacon at church, but he eats supper with his friends.

1830: Everyone is dropped off at their appropriate classes, and I head over to the K-2nd grade group (with R and D) to work with my kindergartners. The format is changed up a little tonight, and it gives me a little downtime to relax.

2000: AWANA is over. I regather everyone and we head for home. Usually we see Noah (who works with the youthgroup) but he doesn't appear to be around. He is cellphoneless, so I can't call him. I expect to see him at some point tonight.

2020: We arrive home and Noah arrives soon after. He had gotten hung up at church. Lincoln asked for the camera and took some shots.

2030: After being jammified, the kids settled in with their icecream. After that it was toothbrushing time.
Lincoln asked Noah to cut his nails, so they did that while Berean redestroyed the living room.
2100: All kids in their proper rooms for bed.
2100: I spend a little time on the computer, talk to Noah, Clean up the kitchen and the main floor (again!) and then settle on the couch to read some more of my text book. Noah did his Insanity workout DVD. Sometime after 2200 I fell asleep on the couch. Sometime around 2300, he woke me up and we went to bed.
And that, my friends, was our day.

Friday, October 7, 2011

School Update

I posted our homeschool plan awhile ago, here is an update on how things are going and how I like the curriculum! (original text is in black, my comments are in red! Obviously :)

Our homeschool co-0p is actually a "school" that is open 2 days a week with an a la carte menu. The teachers are paid and although it is spendy, we feel that it is worth it for the boys to have exposure to different teachers, other students and a different environment for that one morning a week. Also, once my volunteer hours are over, I will have time to grocery shop :)

Volunteer hours are now over. Last week I got my workout in (at a nearby YMCA), grocery shopping and an additional walk with just Berean. After we picked up Linc, we had an hour before the other boys were done which gave us enough time to pick up some shampoo etc that we didn't buy at the grocery store. I could get used to this.

Deacon is going to be in 2nd grade, Roman in 1st and Lincoln in preschool. Lincoln will go to preschool once a week at the public school for speech, and once a week at the co-op. He will also have private speech therapy 1-2 times a week.

Lincoln is enjoying his two preschools. Private therapy is not as exciting for him, although he seems to enjoy it once he is there. I am really looking forward to it being over, though, and am hopeful that by the new year we won't be doing private speech any longer.

Here is our plan for this year:

PE: (this is my favorite subject to plan for :) D and R are both going to take Taekwando at our local homeschool "school". They are also going to do a 2 day a week "gym and swim"kind of thing at our YMCA. In the winter they will play Upward basketball at church. We may sign them up for swimming/flag football etc during the year.

D really likes Taekwando, and R tolerates it. R is not really into exerting himself. The 2 day a week Gym and Swim got cancelled, so they are now doing a gym class and swim lessons on the same day at another Y. It actually works out pretty well, and it is a really good class for them.

ART: The boys will have art once a week at our homeschool co-op and then will also have some projects on "Grandma" day once a week. In addition, I signed D and R up for a nature photography class for fall at a park nearby (living in a big city has advantages!).

The boys liked their photography class, although they were heard to say "what do we need a class for? You just push the button and take the picture!" Of course Grandma has done projects with them as well.

MUSIC: Deacon will sing in Kid's choir again at church. I will give them a basic review of music and we will listen to some different kinds of music during the year. We may or may not eventually do music lessons for our kids. I would like to say we would, but they are quite expensive, and with 5 kids it may happen only for the kids who care. At this point I can't see paying for something only to have them whine and complain about it.

Deacon's choir will be involved in the production "GT and the Halo Express: Ticket to Christmas" this year! Yeah!

BIBLE: The kids will be working through their Awana books again this year, and I am planning to use a "walk through the Old Testament" book that I have to offer a Biblical Framework. We also will probably build off of the Jelly Telly "What's In the Bible with Buck Denver" DVD series.

The boys are flying through their AWANA books this year, and are very motivated to learn their verses. We aren't doing other Bible like I was planning, because our Mystery of History and other subjects are incorporating Bible stories and Bible themes.

MATH: Roman will be starting Singapore Math 1a, Lincoln will be doing Singapore Kindergarten and Deacon will be using Math Expressions 2nd grade curriculum. Deacon's curriculum comes free from our school district (I know, it is a big MACHE no-no, but seriously??! The curriculum is free and I like it. I pay taxes too, you know). I do like Singapore math, but I don't live or die by it.

Math is going ok. I am trying to really get them to know their math facts quickly. They don't like math very much, but they are plugging along, and are on track with the timetable I have in my mind.

SCIENCE: This year we are going to use Alpha Omega LIFEPACs for science- 1st grade for Roman and 2nd grade for Deacon. Let me start off by saying that this was a difficult decision. I feel that these LIFEPACs are incredibly easy and simplistic (although I could be proved wrong as we get into it) but what I like about them is that they are intended for the kids to be able to read and they have to write in the book! My boys need as much reading and writing practice as they can get, and I like how LIFEPAC sneaks it into their subjects. This material is also grade level appropriate and I can clearly see that it will easily cover what they need to know for the standardized test that they need to take in the Spring.

I like the LIFE PAC science a lot more than I thought I would. Roman's is really simplistic, but he can read the stuff, take the tests and is learning something- I think. Deacon's units so far have been on plants and incorporate quizzes, reading, writing and experiments. It is a "learn by mastery" kind of thing, and I like the repetition, the self tests and then the whole unit tests. The tests aren't difficult, because the material is covered thouroughly. I think what he is learning will stick.

However, I could not let it end there. D and R will be doing earth science one day a week at our co-0p, and so as a family we are going to supplement our science by using Apologia's Astronomy textbook. I LOVE THIS SERIES! It is intended to last a 1/2 year to a year and you hit the subject super hard and in depth, instead of moving around from topic to topic. here is the link in case you are interested in looking at this text.

I really, really love this Astronomy curriculum. We have learned so much (me included!) and the activities, projects and workbook activities are interesting and informative.

HISTORY/GEOGRAPHY: This is by far my favorite subject and has been the biggest disappointment to me as a homeschool parent. I feel that it is very difficult to find good hardcore history curriculum for the younger grades. Then I realized that no one seems to teach it in the younger grades. They discuss communities, flags, famous buildings and other super-basic knowledge. This annoys me.



We are going to useLIFE PAC (this link brings you to the 5 subject set- we only bought 3 of the subjects) for grade level expectation history learning. The kids will learn that they are special and about communities. It makes me gag, but it incorporates a lot of reading and writing and it will teach to the standardized test and make sure I am not missing anything vital (such as what a community in Japan looks like).

I like this Life Pac more than I thought I would too. It is a lot of reading for the child, writing and incorporates Biblical themes as well.

To supplement we will use two more texts,Mystery of History and Exploring American History. The former will give us a summary of history from Creation to the Resurrection (I am very excited about this book!) and the later will go through basic American History and highlight the presidents. We will also work on cementing our knowledge of continents, oceans, states, big countries and memorizing our Presidents. We will do these two texts 2-3 days a week and it will be mostly me just reading to them- no real projects or tests or anything. My boys (especially Deacon) learn really well by listening.

I love the "Mystery of History". It gives a nice framework of history and I like the activities that go along with it. I haven't gotten our time line going, but plan to soon. Our American History text is interesting, and we are taking it slowly. We don't do anything with it but read the text.

LANGUAGE ARTS: I left this for last because this is the subject that I like the absolute least. If I could pick one subject to leave for someone else to teach the boys, this would be it. The boys will be taking a writing class at co-op and we will be using the LIFE PAC grade 1 and 2 language arts curriculum, a phonics book and 2nd grade reading books obtained through our school district. Deacon is not a strong reader yet, so I will be pushing him as I also teach Roman and Lincoln. This will be a subject that we work on as a group and separately.

The lifepac language arts are a lot of work for my writing-hating boys. It is good for them though, even though I am not sure we will get through all 10 units by the end of the year. Deacon is doing much better on his reading, and Roman is too.

Well, that is my plan. I know that it is pretty intense, but we won't do everything every day. My goal is to be a fun and engaging teacher so that they catch my enthusiasm. That, of course, will be difficult on the days that my house is a mess, Berean is needy and I just want to take a nap- but I will do my best! In a couple months I will update you on what is working,and what has been thrown to the wayside!

Lincoln is gone for a couple hours 2 mornings a week, and we can get a lot done during those times. Berean is a big distraction and takes it upon herself to get into trouble during school. I have learned to hold off her breakfast until school starts- then she can sit in her booster and eat and watch the activity. I am hopeful that things with her will get better, not worse.

Well, that is it! I am off to get some sleep!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

In The Name of Frugality

I went grocery shopping today, and I gotta tell ya, every time I go it gets more and more discouraging. Prices are up, and with a lot of hungry mouths to feed, more and more of our budget is heading the way of the grocery store. Well, that and the gas station. Once upon a time I could consistently pay for a tank of gas on 1 hours wage, not anymore.

All this got me thinking about how far I will go for the sake of frugality. I will read a blog about someone saving money on something, and I will think, "but consider the time! Not worth it". Other things sound like good options. So without further ado, here is the start of my list:

GIVE BIRTH AT HOME: not going to happen. I like hospitals. I like (some) doctors. I have no need/interest in pursuing a home birth. I realize people never used to give birth in hospitals, but mortality rates were higher than as well. This is something I will spend money on.

MAKE MY OWN LAUNDRY SOAP: I see this one tossed around a lot. I estimate that I do about 8-10 loads of laundry a week. I use a little less than the recommended amount of detergent, therefore I think I use a 32-load bottle a month. Using coupons and watching sales, I can get that for between $4-5 a month. Over the course of the year, that is only about $60. I can afford that- making my own is not worth my time.

DIY HAIRCUTS- We do this. I use a clippers on Noah and the boys and my mom cuts there hair with a scissors if necessary. My mom really likes to cut hair, and sometimes it is hard to get her to stop. I will occasionally go somewhere to get mine done, but she will often cut it for me as well. Right now I just haven't had it cut, which I don't necessarily recommend. Bottom line, we are already saving as much as we can on haircuts.

CLOTH: I used cloth diapers when Berean was younger, but I have fallen out of the habit since I got pregnant again. I don't buy papertowels very often- instead using washcloths for spills etc. I draw the line with toilet paper, however. We don't use corn cobs or old Sears Roebuck Catalogs- really, we don't.

CLOTHES LINE: This is something that I would do more if I had a good clothesline and if I hadn't been permanently scarred by our ex- neighbor in regard to clothesline protocol (It is a long story). Anyway, I don't currently have a great place for one, but I do dry the sheets and blankets on the deck railing. Tacky, I know, but it makes them so fresh! I also hang Noah's shirts to dry.

TV: We don't pay for TV- we just get basic channels. This has the side benefit of us not watching as much TV. We do have high speed internet, but we only have one cell phone and it is on a plan combined with extended family. So I guess in our book, TV is not worth paying for, but internet definitely is.

HOME COOKING: I just finished freezing applesauce made from a couple hundred pounds of apples. I would like to get back into making my own yogurt. I try to do some freezer meals and bulk cooking as time allows. We do like to eat out as a family and as a couple and so we won't completely eliminate that. Oh, and we will never eliminate pizza either.

FUEL: One big idea for saving money is being a one car family and combining errands etc to save on gas. We do spend a lot of money on gas, but I don't have many solutions to this problem that I am willing to try. Noah and I both have long commutes, and that is just the way it is. I could work 12 hour shifts, and not have to go in as often, but that really gets in the way of family life. I could group errands and excursions more than I do, but the kids get tired after 1-2 stops (who am I kidding, they are usually tired of it before we start!) and so I am not willing to do that either. I think we will just continue to spend a lot of our money on fuel, for the time being.


REDUCE HOUSING COSTS: We don't live in a big house now, we have a lot of kids and we will not be downsizing anytime soon. Our mortgage payment is pretty low as it is, and we do appreciate not trying to manage a huge monthly payment.


GYM MEMBERSHIP: We have had a YMCA membership for 6 years now, and I love it. It is one of the few "non-necessities" in our budget that I (not Noah) insist on keeping.

VICES: We choose not to drink (this decision, is, of course, not all related to cost) but not having alcohol on the restaurant tab and a liquor store receipt does help the budget. We also don't smoke and Noah has given up pop for the most part as well.

PETS: Every time I cut coupons I am thankful we don't have a pet. I have zero interest in paying for vet bills and dog food. Zero.

I could go on, but I think I will stop here for now. Where do you draw the line on frugalness? Have you heard of any other frugal activities I should try? Let me know in the comments!

Monday, October 3, 2011

Steam Punk

Yep, once again no excuses for not blogging except for that I feel like I haven't had a moment to myself all week...

This situation must change soon, because I really like to blog and I don't want to stop. I will give it some thought before I drift off to sleep.

Here are some new QOTD's for your enjoyment!

J- called Noah and work and said, "I saw the pictures of my coworker's steampunk wedding! The cake had a blimp on it!"

N (in a slightly condescending voice): "I guarantee it was not a blimp. Blimps are for sporting events and sales. It was an airship."

Yep, I married a man who not only understands steampunk without googling it, but he also appreciates it's idiosyncrasies.

D: "flies are more skittish than mosquitoes"

Deacon was telling me the other day that the Bible doesn't tell us what language people spoke before the Tower of Babel. Roman pipes in with, "I am pretty sure it was English".